Life of an average joe

These essays cover a tour in Afghanistan for the first seventeen letters home. For an overview of that tour, and thoughts on Iraq, essays #1, #2 and #17 should suffice. Staring with the eighteenth letter, I begin to recount -- hopefully in five hundred words -- some daily aspects of life in Mexico with the Peace Corps.



Thursday, July 4, 2013

Letter-81: Windsor and D.O.M.A.

NOTE in 2016: I switched my political preference to sanction the term "marriage" for same-gender couples when religious freedom laws emerged after this decision. The vote against the term marriage had been contingent upon same-gender couples availing themselves of very right accorded to 'traditional' married couples. When it became obvious that such justice would not proceed for 'civil unions', justice required that the term "marriage" be applied, with its full cultural approbation, to same-gender couples. 


The Supreme Court acts as a Council of Elders for the Republic in which we live.  That does not imply infallibility but should command our respect.  The Supreme Court for over two centuries has successfully asserted a role of clarifying what the law says under the Constitution.  In controversial decisions, some see the Court as over-reaching while others believe it is protecting the rights of citizens and States as enumerated and implied under the Constitution. 

Either way, what the Supreme Court does is judicial review to provide checks on the powers of other branches of government and of aggressive or belligerent majorities.  And, on this day of all days, we ought to be properly grateful to the nine men and women who serve not us alone but those yet to come.  The Decision of U.S. versus Edith Windsor (“Windsor”), which overturned the key provisions of the Defense of Marriage Act of 1996 (“D.O.M.A.”) conforms to this tradition of deferential goodwill.

Truthfully, I voted against same-sex marriages in a Maryland referendum in 2012.  That proposition only passed 53-47% in one of the bluest of blue states; gay marriage is not a ‘gimme’ nor is it a gimmick.  These unions are here to stay.  I would still vote against that proposition, notwithstanding Windsor, were it held again today. Yet declaring D.O.M.A. to be unconstitutional was “meet and right so to do” by the Supreme Court. 

The Court’s opinion – written by Justice Kennedy on behalf of himself as well as Justices Ginsburg, Kagan, Sotomayor and Breyer – made a compelling, pithy point that, “D.O.M.A. seeks to injure the very class New York [law] seeks to protect….”  Further, the split decision (five votes to four) found a common ground in favor of two constructions of the Constitution and precedents consistent with the national charter.

First, the D.O.M.A. law went far beyond a simple definition of marriage to disenfranchise a group of couples from economic rights and political sanctions afforded to other couples in a manner outside of the scope and against the spirit of the Constitution.  Second, committed relationships are the proper province of state laws. Contrary to the assertions of this decision being an example of judicial over-reach, Windsor corrected flagrant legislative over-reach and economic discrimination.

Under this decision, states still have latitude to legislate or regulate marriages.  Yet Justice Kennedy stayed in the everyday real-world by stating, “….until recent years, many citizens had not even considered the possibility that two persons of the same sex might aspire to occupy the same status and dignity as that of a man and woman in lawful marriage.”  The argument against expanding traditional definitions of marriage to include gay unions is actually one that is well thought out.

Though I still agree with the essence of those arguments, its disturbing application under D.O.M.A. spelled the law’s demise.  Basically the conservative view, outside of the bullies bloviating across the air-waves, is simple.  First, with few exceptions, across millennia and societies, marriage had meant monogamy between a man and woman, principally for the creation and socialization of children.  Without the secure transmission of values, civilizations falter.

And we see evidence of that verity, however unfashionable, to this day.  The statistics are unmistakable: children of broken families and single parent households, especially boys, tend to run into more behavioral and adjustment problems as adolescents and adults.  This may likely apply to children growing up under same-sex couples.  The rub here is that wealthier families with intact extended family networks often compensate for any real or perceived deficiency of a non-traditional family unit.

In a nutshell, that is the argument: tradition and statistics (at least as the latter apply to the more economically stressed and isolated).  Now, anecdotally, same-sex couples seem largely to be affluent and often nurtured by loving extended families that are well educated.  That is great.  For me, I would like to see a meeting of minds of the more civil arguments between both sides.  Marriage remains a heterosexual monogamous union while civil unions are available to committed same-sex couples.

That would mean, at least on the national level, absolutely no discrimination of one status over the other, with equal protection under the law and equal access to the advantages of being American citizens.  While conservatives may object to a mere semantics game suggested here, I would submit that this compromise balances respect for the tradition of matrimony – still a sacrament in many people’s eyes – with fraternal acceptance of all manner of goodwill and righteous citizenship.

There still remain a couple of house-keeping points brought to the fore by the dissent of Justice Scalia.  First, should the Supreme Court have ruled on this case at all, since it basically upheld the findings of lower courts?  Yes, it should have, as Justice Kennedy wrote, “relevant prudential factors that counsel against hearing this case are subject to ‘countervailing considerations [that] may outweigh the concerns underlying the usual reluctance to exert judicial power.’”

While the decision stated that the lack of ‘precedential’ guidance for ninety-four district courts and over a thousand laws mandated this exertion of judicial power, I would go beyond that to the underlying purpose of the Constitution itself: to secure the blessing of liberty for the citizenry.  Since the Constitution is a user’s manual for republican government based on natural law, its aim is to limit national powers as those specifically delegated to the government by the governed (i.e.,  in our case, states and people).

Those enumerated powers belong to the government for two reasons: scope and protection of natural rights.  Scope is easy to identify.  There can only be one foreign policy of the United States, at least at a time.  Most of the other enumerated powers focus on matters truly national or international in nature.  The protection of natural rights is a little trickier.  Often, such rights – always open to differing interpretations – are best left to the states.

On the other hand, there are rights that transcend the states and transcend people.  They are the natural rights endowed by the Creator as expressed through His nature manifested on Earth.  For the less religious among us, I suggest re-phrasing this idea as a neo-platonist notion that there are certain practices, norms, behaviors, etc. that consistently emerge across time and space.  This persistence of overt behaviors implies an absolute upon which specific conventions and norms are modelled, if imperfectly.

The beauty of our Constitution is that it really is a how-to book of the natural law captured in short-hand within the Declaration of Independence.  These inalienable rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness (i.e., property) are what the Constitution is designed to protect within a larger scheme of social and national interaction.  When state-level or popular practices abridge these inalienable rights, without merit in the eyes of a reasonable and disinterested fellow citizen, the issue is no longer one for the states.

That explains why – despite brilliant compromises and articulate Supreme Court opinions – slavery never went away until it was abolished without exception or mercy.  That is why the dilemma of pro-life versus pro-choice keeps nagging at us even after the Supreme Court tried to resolve it by reserving such judgments to the states and protecting an implied right of privacy.  In this vein, D.O.M.A. did not resolve this question of equality for same sex couples; it abridged the rights of gay Americans. At the least, the right to equal economic benefits.

The other implication of Justice Scalia’s erudite and articulate dissent with which I disagree was best put forward by my F.B. friend and, virtual oracle, Dr William Monie Bauer.  Bill and I agree on what Justice Scalia implied – making these cases piecemeal.  We differ on their effect on the larger society.  If the Court had dismissed the hearing without definitive precedent, every instance of discrimination against same-sex couples would have to go through a separate suit.

Dr Bauer is right that the judicial cholesterol would clog the system and the government, finally forcing much-needed reforms of the court system ridding it of its most burdensome dysfunctions.  Yet, piecemeal trials would permit people to slow the progress toward eliminating abridgements of natural law in service of a more perfect union.  My inarticulate argumentation ought not render inscrutable a fairly straight-forward perversion of justice.

Take the 1954 ‘Brown versus Board of Education’ decision, for example.  If Topeka had simply let those black children into the white school before the Supreme Court had rendered a decision, then (under Justice Scalia’s reasoning), the case would have had not standing and been dismissed.  What an ingenious way for white supremacists to pursue apartheid: every time a case came close to decision, let a few black kids into the white school.

The at-most dozen or so black children thus admitted every year to foil a governing precedent would be so small compared to the white majority that, in areas of overt racial oppression, those children would probably be out of there soon and, if not, would have so little influence that “99.9% separate would be inherently unequal.”  In fact, segregation would still be in place today under the precedent of the ‘Plessy vs Ferguson’ decision of 1896. 

The decision to gut D.O.M.A. is a welcome application of judicial and national power to eradicate a systemic injustice.  As for my own feelings about gay unions; that is irrelevant.  Heterosexuality is my preference, but it ought not be my presumption.  I would suggest to those fond of citing Sodom and Gomorrah, as examples of the unnatural state and consequences of homosexuality, that they have overlooked one very important aspect of the larger story that prefigures the compassion later exemplified in other faiths. 

Abraham taught God all about compassion (and, for those who see homosexuality as something sinfully deviant, forgiveness) by haggling Him down to finding one good man in the city limits to get that desert dumpster off the hook.  Frankly, I am not one to buy into the forgiveness argument for I see nothing to forgive.  The incidence of homosexuality rises with levels of sentience among beings.  Additionally, findings suggest that sexual preference is either innate or manifested early in life.